Women love unconditionally and struggle with all obstacles that need in order to eventually feel the happiness in a relationship. However, when a woman decides that it is not worth anymore, and she needs to leave, there is nothing that can stop her.
Even when being mistreated, women fight and are determined to save love and get the most out of their relationship. If you have found the one already, make sure you treat her right, show her how much you care, and respect her.
If she decides to leave, she won’t turn back, and in this situation, these are the five thoughts that come to her mind:
– She Has Been Alone for Too Long
Both partners are needed for a relationship to succeed, and if she struggles alone, it won’t take long for her to realize that leaving is the only option. If the man is not present, physically and emotionally, in the relationship, there is no point in being a couple anymore. A woman does not need the man to be available at her every beck and call, but she needs to know that she has his support and love at all times.
Randi Gunther, the clinical psychologist and marriage counselor for over 40 years, as well as the founder of heroiclove.com, says:
“It must be a parallel path. Both men and women must separately find their own balance between their need for independence and their desire for ongoing commitment. As integrated individuals in their own right, they would then have the capacity to create a relationship that is more than the exchange or sum of the parts. Committed partners who are willing to fight for that innovative solution will find the way.”
– She Is No Longer Loved
The best gift you can give to a woman is to love her, and she will reciprocate it and treat you even better. A faithful woman will cherish your feelings, and stay with you, in good and bad in life.
– She Has Been Taken for Granted
Justice Schanfarber, a counselor, and certified Hakomi therapist, explains:
“Women leave for many reasons, but there’s one reason in particular that haunts me, one that I want men to understand: Women leave because their man is not present. He’s working, golfing, gaming, watching TV, fishing…the list is long. These aren’t bad men. They’re good men. They’re good fathers. They support their family. They’re nice, likeable. But they take their wife for granted. They’re not present.”
Your woman will walk out if she does not receive a thing, even though she has exhausted all her strength to make the relationship work. She will eventually decide it is best to leave if it outweighs remaining together.
– She Knows She Deserves Better
Women are well aware of their self-worth, so when not treated as they deserve, they will end the relationship. Women feel the need to grow, learn, love and be loved, and if their partner does not appreciate them, they will decide to turn to their own happiness, instead of constantly seeking the attention they need.
– There Is No Reason for Her to Stay
When she has tried her best and the relationship is still toxic and she doesn’t feel happy, she won’t stay anymore. Even when hard, women leave if they believe they are not needed or loved.
Finally, take the advice from Mr.Schanfarber:
“If you think you’re present with your wife, try listening to her. Does your mind wander? Notice. When you look at her, how deeply do you see her? Look again, look deeper. Meet her gaze and keep it for longer than usual, longer than what’s comfortable. If she asks what you’re doing, tell her: “I’m looking into you. I want to see you deeply. I’m curious about who you are. After all these years I still want to know who you are, every day.”