Everything is energy, and even though we are often unaware of it, the influence of negative people around us can ruin our life. These people destroy our inner peace and self-esteem.
As all relationships in our life should be positive and meaningful, the true secret to happiness in life is to learn to recognize toxic people and detach them from our life.
These people are manipulative, dangerous, and deceitful, but they never admit their mistakes. They are obsessed with themselves and show no concern for others, as they think only of their own feelings and opinions.
They love to play the victim, never apologize, or at least, they never mean it, and always have an ulterior motive. Nobody is perfect and we all make mistakes, but we should always apologize for them.
Toxic people are different. They believe they are perfect and think they can never be wrong, so they always find a way to justify their behavior.
If they cannot find a suitable excuse, it is easier for them to blame others. People who never apologize actually have a fragile ego, and brittle self-esteem, so their weak “psychological constitution” cannot stand the thought they were wrong.
This is too threatening for their egos to tolerate, so their defense mechanism is to distort their perception of reality. On the other hand, toxic people are not mature enough to own up their mistakes and take responsibility for their actions.
Moreover, it is impossible to reason toxic people. In the end, they will turn the tables around, making you feel the guilt. These master manipulators are confident, and even highly attractive.
Yet, over time, their toxic side does not allow the partner to grow. Relationships with a toxic partner are extremely hard, as these people never change nor try to improve.
You will drain yourself, and in the end, you will find yourself apologizing for their mistakes. Do yourself a favor, get out of that unhealthy relationship as soon as possible.
Be careful, toxic partners will try to control the situation and entrap you, so don’t believe it for a second. Just leave.